Hi, my name is Ryan Wynder. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist practicing in Las Vegas, Nevada. I specialize in treating people with Pornography and Masturbation Addiction.
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Perhaps you are here because you want to know how to stop watching porn. I created this site to help people like you live fuller, happier lives free from the bonds of pornography addiction, which destroys families and hurts loved ones.
I launched this site after my therapy practice became INUNDATED with people looking for help to stop looking at pornography and help with how to stop masturbating.
With my proven success record in helping people who struggle with pornography addiction, I would like to help you too. (Results of effectiveness vary depending on severity and length of addiction)
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Why Is It So Hard to Stop Watching Porn?!
Three reasons why it’s almost impossible to kick masturbation addiction without help!
1. According to Internationally acclaimed speaker, trainer, author and Mentor- Mark Kastleman in his book: The Drug of the New Millennium, the chemicals in our brain are utilized in the pornography industry to draw us towards their product. Male and Female brains are chemically wired different, in particular when it comes to arousal. Men are more visual creatures and can draw sexual gratification through our eyes. We are turned on by sexual nudity in any way shape or form! We have a visual spark plug when it comes to viewing the female body. Women’s sexual stimulation is often tied to touch and relationship, thus it may be hard for them to understand the visual overload men experience.
2. Men have a strong regular sex drive. According to Dr. Dobson, for most men the buildup to heightened sexual desire takes only about 72 hours. Thus, when sexual response is blocked men experience an accumulating physiological pressure which demands release. Although this release does not justify acting out through pornography, it does give added understanding to the complexity of the struggle in our battle against this addiction.
3. Another key aspect of this issue is that as males we are socialized to not share our emotions. Our emotions/feelings, however, are central to the healing process of our addiction. Sharing has to happen with your wife, your counselor, your support group, and through your feelings journal. These tools and skills of sharing feelings with others will need to be developed in order to combat your addiction. That means stepping away from our conditioned responses of being male.
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In my practice, I am often asked by my clients how they know if they are “Addicted” to pornography. I always ask them: "What kind of effect is Pornography playing in your life"? Most individuals who start viewing Pornography, do so "RECREATIONALLY". Just like people who experiment with drugs, for some people it just takes trying it once to become addicted. The results of my clients vary. Some Do very well and are able to free themselves of pornography. Others may continue struggling despite my counsel.
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When your life starts to become seriously disrupted because of pornography, you have a problem. I have clients who started off viewing pornography, and that led to frequenting strip clubs, sleeping with prostitutes, and getting fired from their jobs for viewing porn at work. They not only lost their jobs, but lost family and friends as well. It can be a slippery slope. That's why I created Overcome Pornography. I wanted to help those men and women who have had their lives destroyed by addiction to pornography.
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I want you to know that I’m here to help you beat this addiction. You CAN stop watching porn and you DON’T have to be defeated by this addiction that destroys individuals, alienates loved ones and tears families apart.
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Here's to a NEW You!
Ryan Wynder
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