The mindset of someone who is addicted to Pornography is often filled with justifications.
Justifications come in many forms and can range from being very simple to extremely complex. Nonetheless they all serve the same purpose and that is to maintain the connection one has to their Addiction to PORN.
Justifications keep the relationship first and foremost.
Recently I had a client that opened me up to a whole new world of justifying statements for PORN use!! He started out with saying things Read more [...]
Recently I was interviewed by a local radio station in Las Vegas. The topic was Pornography Addiction.
You can listen to the Interview HERE
I would love to get your feedback- do you agree or disagree with anything?
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In the book Reinventing Your Life, it discusses 11 different life traps that we fall into in our lives. The book also discusses 3 ways in which we respond or deal with issues. We surrender to them, try and escape them, or we use a counter attack approach. This theory also translates to porn addiction.
Recently, I was working with a client and we were discussing his feelings of shame, which are primarily: I am defective and if people really knew me, they would not love me. As we discussed his feelings Read more [...]