In the book Reinventing Your Life, it discusses 11 different life traps that we fall into in our lives. The book also discusses 3 ways in which we respond or deal with issues. We surrender to them, try and escape them, or we use a counter attack approach. This theory also translates to porn addiction.
Recently, I was working with a client and we were discussing his feelings of shame, which are primarily: I am defective and if people really knew me, they would not love me. As we discussed his feelings Read more [...]
How did you get started?
Did a buddy find some "Nudy" magazine somewhere, and invited you over to check it out?
Were you surfing the WEB and inadvertently came across porn?
I recently saw a client who had his first exposure to pornography while doing Highway "Clean up" when he was a BOY SCOUT.
He was walking down beside the high way and went to pick up some garbage, and saw a front cover of a Hard Porn magazine.
He didn't seek this out- it came to him. He made a choice to instead Read more [...]