Men’s Porn Use Linked to Unhappy Relationships
I just came across a very good article that you should read..
http://tinyurl.com/dxrwy23
Pornography obviously doesn't just affect the person who is looking at pornography, but their significant other as well.
I would say that 90% of my clients struggling with porn addiction- are concerned about how porn is hurting their existing relationships. This article does a great job of describing the feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem that the partner goes through when they discover pornography Read more [...]
Porn Addictive Personality?
In fighting YOUR Addiction to Pornography you must remember that there is another player involved in the battle that we need to pay attention to. That player is our Addictive Personality and it has a mind of it's own.
In Dr. Lee Jampolsky's book The Addictive Personality he states, "the Addictive Personality is not going to go down without a fight, and it is in your best interest to know all of its tricks and strategies for distraction."
So we need to ask ourselves the questions - How does Read more [...]
Porn Addiction Recovery Needs
Today I was again reminded of the depth and the layers that are involved in our recovery from porn addiction.
In meeting with a client we were discussing a recent melt down that he had, which did not lead to a relapse but did create a concern in the client in regards to his overall emotional well-being.
For many recovering addicts the idea or what can seem like the newness of feeling and dealing with ones emotions can at times be overwhelming. This is why the feelings journal can be so Read more [...]
Porn Addiction Justification
The mindset of someone who is addicted to Pornography is often filled with justifications.
Justifications come in many forms and can range from being very simple to extremely complex. Nonetheless they all serve the same purpose and that is to maintain the connection one has to their Addiction to PORN.
Justifications keep the relationship first and foremost.
Recently I had a client that opened me up to a whole new world of justifying statements for PORN use!! He started out with saying things Read more [...]
KNPR Las Vegas – Porn Free Interview
Recently I was interviewed by a local radio station in Las Vegas. The topic was Pornography Addiction.
You can listen to the Interview HERE
I would love to get your feedback- do you agree or disagree with anything?
Best-
Ryan
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Masturbation and Pornography Addiction
Often in the fight to overcome our pornography addiction we fail to mention or talk about it's counterpart which is masturbation. Some people may even struggle more with a masturbation addiction than they do a pornography addiction.
I wanted to shed some light on this dynamic in hopes that we might have a better understanding of why our ability to stop masturbation maybe more complex than we think.
Just like pornography is not just about the naked people, masturbation also has a underlying Read more [...]
What Is Your “Snap”- Pornography Addiction?
In treating people struggling with Pornography Addiction you find that this addiction is no respecter of persons. Those engulfed in its chains come in all shapes and sizes and in particular have various personality types. Recently, I have noticed a trend with a certain personality type and this addiction.
The “Perfectionist” is an individual whose life is defined by pressure. They are always in the clutches of their unrelenting standards, which drive them to be Read more [...]
Overcome Pornography- A Porn Addiction Recovery Program that Works!
Hi, my name is Ryan Wynder and I want to welcome you to my Pornography Addiction site.
Click Here to learn how to Overcome Pornography
You more than likely have a lot of questions regarding Pornography and Sex Addiction. Overcome Pornography was created for not only those suffering from an Addiction to Pornography or Sex, but those loved ones who may be affected as well.
In my private counseling practice in Las Vegas Nevada, I have been INUNDATED with clients both suffering from Pornography Read more [...]
Held Hostage by Pornography
Jeff is a quiet and contemplative 28 year old male, recently married
with no children.
During our initial meeting Jeff easily disclosed his personal life,
providing a wealth of background information regarding his education
and employment.
Jeff works as an accountant with a moderate size firm and shared openly
his desire of making partner within a short time frame. Further
disclosure indicated that Jeff had served a Mormon mission overseas in
Southeast Asia where he had acquired a taste Read more [...]
It’s Not About the Naked People
There have been many times over the years in my treatment of
pornography addiction, that clients have looked at me almost cross-eyed
when I say to them: "It's Not about the Naked People!
Their focus up until that point has been on the "Naked" people and they
base their sense of progress simply on whether I look at pornography or
I don't.
Of course my challenge to all my clients is to look beyond the scope of
the naked people and see what is behind THEIR desire to maintain their
addiction.
I Read more [...]